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Entries from December 1, 2008 - December 31, 2008

Seven Pounds Movie.  SPOILER.

Posted on Saturday, December 27, 2008 at 11:49PM by Registered CommenterDavina in | Comments13 Comments

 

crazy bad.

 

I just got home from seeing Seven Pounds and I have to say I couldn't be more disappointed in a movie.  I love Will Smith.  I think he is an amazing actor and he seems to be an even better person...but he really missed the mark on picking this film.

This movie is over the top in sentimentality and makes almost no sense.  I also think it glamorized and glorified suicide and makes something selfish and sad look selfless.  I really had a hard time believing the whole premise of the movie and even had a difficult time trying to figure out what the actual message was. 

I was hoping for an inspirational, moving, beautiful, life-affirming type of movie and and was left saying, "WHAT?"  I've never seen people hop out of their seats faster to leave a movie and even saw some people get up and exit in the middle. 

The acting was great but the film itself was just bad.  I have no idea how the screenplay even made it to production.  What was Will thinking? 

I really wanted this to be a great movie.  I wanted to believe in it and even suspended reality a number of times trying to just enjoy the idea and direction of the movie.  I knew what was happening from the beginning and was just hoping that there was going to be some unexpected twist that would make sense of everything in a very meaningful way. 

 

No such luck.  Will Smith's character kills himself and it's supposed to be a good thing...I'm speechless.

 

Has anyone else seen it?  What did you think?

 

bummer.

It's a Wonderful Life.

Posted on Friday, December 26, 2008 at 05:59PM by Registered CommenterDavina in | Comments4 Comments

real. LOVE.

I love this movie.  We watched it as a family on Christmas eve.  Maybe I'm just a sentimental person but every time I see it I'm moved by the impact that George Bailey has had on the world.  The things he did and the things that may not have happened if he hadn't come into the world...it always makes me wonder what kind of love I'm leaving...what I'm giving...and what I'm not giving. 

George Bailey changed the world...his world.  He changed the world of the people just right around him in Bedford Falls. 

George wanted to go out in to the world and make his mark, see things, be things...he never did.  You spend a portion of the movie wondering if George Bailey will ever make it out of Bedford Falls.  You wonderful if he'll ever get to do anything...if he'll ever get to see the world.

And then you see that the world would be a very different place with out George.  His seemingly small life, his seeming ordinary-ness was really in a word...extraordinary.

I love this time of year and for the chance to see George Bailey and be reminded that our lives do indeed impact the people around us....what we say...what we do...it changes us and it changes that people around us.

None of us need to travel the world, have a lot of money, or be famous.  In our small, seemingly ordinary way we can be extraordinary to our parents, our brothers, our sisters, our children, our spouse, our friends, our neighbors.  We want to help the planet, the person in Africa, or South America.  When the truth is that our strongest influence and biggest mark can be felt by the person right next to us.

Thanks, "George Bailey...the richest man in town."

real. LIFE.

Move it Monday.

Posted on Monday, December 22, 2008 at 12:14PM by Registered CommenterDavina in | Comments3 Comments

 

one step.

So many things encourage major life changes.  Huge steps.  A complete overhaul. Sweeping changes.  Innovative approaches.  A completely new way to do things.

What I've found, and what the book I just started reading (One Small Step Can Change Your Life by Robert Maurer) says, is that small changes can have huge impact. 

I've now lost 20 pounds.  This didn't come because I made a major change, had surgery, cut major things out of my diet, or jumped on the latest diet craze wagon.  I made small and consistent changes and those changes, over time, have yielded wonderful results.

I decided I would start getting some kind of exercise for 20 minutes a day. I just wanted to get my body moving.  I made a small change in the amount of food I ate by taking a smaller portion and then leaving a little bit of food on my plate at each meal.  Small things.  I didn't decided to cut sugar or carbs or protein from my diet.  Just to eat a little less.

Over time that little bit, those little steps, that 20 minutes have helped.  In fact, they've made a big difference.  I feel better about the way I look, my body is stronger, my muscles are leaner, and my heart is healthier.  I love it.

What small step are you going to take?

small. STEPS.

 

Move it Monday.

Posted on Tuesday, December 16, 2008 at 10:32AM by Registered CommenterDavina in | Comments2 Comments

one day late.

A friend of mine sent me this totally anti-healthy/anti-watch-what-you-eat-for-the-holidays email. I'm going to post it here because I got it on Move it Monday and I thought it was very inappropriate. (lol) or appropriate...which ever way you want to look at it.


This time of year is a really tough time to start on a new healthy eating program. If you're already on one it's tough to just stay on it. For all of you trying to stick to your guns right now I hope the following email makes you laugh...just don't give in to the ideas! :) And to everyone who wants to get started...I won't make you get healthy at the hardest time of the year. I will say to make sure and check back at the beginning of the year, though. We're going to get some motivation going with prizes. (So make sure to tell me what would motivate you to get your booty shakin' in the comments and I'll see what I can do to make it a great prize in January.)

And...I am posting this funny look at NOT staying healthy but make sure to read to the end to see how you can avoid packing on the pounds over the next couple of weeks.

1. Avoid carrot sticks. Anyone who puts carrots on a holiday buffet table knows nothing of the Christmas spirit. In fact, if you see carrots, leave immediately. Go next door, where they're serving rum balls.

2. Drink as much eggnog as you can. And quickly. It's rare. You can't find it any other time of year but now. So drink up! Who cares that it has 10,000 calories in every sip? It's not as if you're going to turn into an eggnog-alcoholic or something. It's a treat. Enjoy it. Have one for me. Have two. It's later than you think. It's Christmas!

3. If something comes with gravy, use it. That's the whole point of gravy. Gravy does not stand alone. Pour it on. Make a volcano out of your mashed potatoes. Fill it with gravy. Eat the volcano. Repeat.

4. As for mashed potatoes, always ask if they're made with skim milk or whole milk. If it's skim, pass. Why bother? It's like buying a sports car with an automatic transmission.

5. Do not have a snack before going to a party in an effort to control your eating. The whole point of going to a Christmas party is to eat other people's food for free. Lots of it. Hello?

6. Under no circumstances should you exercise between now and New Year's. You can do that in January when you have nothing else to do. This is the time for long naps, which you'll need after circling the buffet table while carrying a 10-pound plate of food and that vat of eggnog.

7. If you come across something really good at a buffet table, like frosted Christmas cookies in the shape and size of Santa, position yourself near them and don't budge. Have as many as you can before becoming the center of attention. They're like a beautiful pair of shoes. If you leave them behind, you're never going to see them again.

8. Same for pies. Apple. Pumpkin. Mincemeat. Have a slice of each. Or if you don't like mincemeat, have two apples and one pumpkin. Always have three. When else do you get to have more than one dessert? Labor Day?

9. Did someone mention fruitcake? Granted, it's loaded with the mandatory celebratory calories, but avoid it at all cost.. I mean, have some standards.

10. One final tip: If you don't feel terrible when you leave the party or get up from the table, you haven't been paying attention. Re-read tips; start over, but hurry, January is just around the corner.


And now...Here are some ways to keep those pounds at bay during the holidays...if you're interested!!

-Take a walk with family members.

-Organize a tour of the neighborhood lights.

-Go to a fitness gym with a friend.

-Organize a family outing like skiing, skating, ice skating, horseback riding, etc.

-Eat only one of those cookies or chocolates and then walk away from the plate.  Just walk away.  Nothing to see here.

-Have only one helping of Christmas dinner.

-Eat whatever you want just have a very SMALL piece of it all...(okay, not sure that that one works exactly but if you were going to eat some of everything in large quantities then having a very small amount of it WOULD be more healthy the then possibility, right?)

 

Have fun!!!

good. LIFE.

new studio and new products.

Posted on Sunday, December 14, 2008 at 10:17PM by Registered CommenterDavina in , , | Comments6 Comments

 

 

 

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