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LOVE. LIFE. TIP. #17

Posted on Wednesday, April 1, 2009 at 01:47PM by Registered CommenterDavina in , | Comments7 Comments

 

best and worst.

Dinner time is another favorite time of day for me.  I love the chance to eat good food, hear all of the buzz about the day, and talk about the best and worst.

A year or so ago I started asking the kids to tell what their best and worst was for the day when we were sitting at dinner.  Now, it's become a normal part of dinner.  It's been great, especially doing having this be our little family ritual through our move across the country.  It's given the kids a chance to tell us how things really are, what is happening at school, and what they like in their lives.  It's been so helpful for being able to keep tabs on how they are really feeling about things.

Some days everyone has had a really great day and no one can even think of a 'worst' for the day.  Other days some people can't think of a 'best' for the day.

Some worsts:

I really miss Utah

We didn't get to go outside for recess today because it was raining

I spent too much time on the computer

I didn't get to sit with Emma today at lunch

 

Some bests:

I got the winning touchdown today when we played football at recess

I was the leader today at preschool

I got everything done today that I wanted to get done

I had 20 people in class today

Working in the yard together

Our new trails we made in the yard

Playing in the fort we made in the woods

Shopping for Emmett's birthday

I sold more kits today

I talked to a great bride about her wedding in Florida

Reading books with mom on the couch

Going to Asheville with Dad

Going on a date with Mike

Going on a walk with Grace

 

Most everything is really simple...but they make up the fabric of our lives...and that's what I love about it!

I've decided to start keeping a little book that has our bests and worsts in it so that we can have a little record to look at years from now.

If you're not doing best and worst or not having dinner together...both are totally worth giving a try!

best. LIFE.

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Reader Comments (7)

we do the same thing in our family.....except, we call it "your highs and you low"...everyone has to list their high and low for the day. It's become a ritual!

April 1, 2009 | Unregistered Commenterrebekah

a dinner ritual for us too! this has become a favorite part of my day, especially when the "bests" are simple pleasures.

April 2, 2009 | Unregistered Commentermissy

I don't know how you do it.. but your post always bring tears to my eyes. I just love you and the way you are. AND I am so happy to see your bests list is sooo much longer than your worst list - I imagine you are doing something right.
xoxo

April 2, 2009 | Unregistered Commenterkim

Davina,
This is fantastic, we actually do this as well but we call it good/bad. I see that you put on there that you miss UT. Did you used to live here? I live in UT so that is pretty cool that you are somehow connected to this great state :)
~Brittney

April 2, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterBrittney M. Lang

Missy, that's awesome! Simple pleasures are my faves...

Kim, life is so much better with a long list of bests! :) I'm so glad you visit my blog. I miss you!

Brittney, I love that people are already doing this fun tradition. I did live in Utah until about 6-7 months ago. We love it there, miss it, but are having a fun adventure here in South Carolina...

April 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterDavina

The summer hasn't been the same without you! The 4th seemed alot less fun; with no party next door. I miss the kids in their pool everyday and the many beautiful pictures they brought me. I send kisses and lots of love.

July 27, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterAnn

Ann, you are so sweet. We miss you very much as well. At our 4th of July party this year we talked about you and wondered what you were doing. We miss you, friend and neighbor...

November 21, 2009 | Registered CommenterDavina

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