**All images in this post are copyright Maile Wilson.***

 

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Maile, You have wonderful work, have made deep, lasting, and meaningful connections with other women photographers and artists around the world, and you are so real.  I love the honesty and humor that is in everything that you do.  I'm thrilled to have you on Women and Business today.  Thank you!

 

My number one question is...how do you say your name? :)
It’s pronounced “Mylie”, as in Cyrus.  :)

How long have you been a professional photographer?
I’ve been shooting professionally for over fifteen years. But I started at a Glamour studio in the 90s. So most of my early work could supply www.awkwardfamilyphotos.com with at least a year’s worth of content.

Are you in a retail space or a home studio?  What made you decide to have the space you have?
I’ve had 4 different retail spaces over the years, and have a love/hate relationship with them. After letting my last lease run out in January, I admitted to myself that the part I like best about having a studio is initially decorating it: choosing paint, furniture, color schemes. After the newness wears off, I get bored with shooting there, start to persuade my clients to go on location, then feel ridiculous for paying rent on a largely un-used space. Right now I lease office space.

What does your workflow look like?  Do you outsource or keep everything in house?

I don’t shoot weddings, so I edit everything myself. I also used to be really bad at saying “no”, which would turn me into an insane nocturnal beast during the busy holiday season. I’ve learned to draw boundaries and delegate. But I’m still dying to take one of Millie’s workshops so she can teach me how to be organized.

What do you do to help your clients be so comfortable with you during a photo shoot?

I talk, ask lots of questions, and treat the session as if it were a lunch date with a friend. Pretty soon people forget about the camera, and then I pounce. Just kidding. That visual just made me laugh.  :)

How did you become such a fun writer?

I don’t think of myself as a writer, as much as a talker. I write the same way that I speak. My paragraphs are littered with run-ons and fragments. This was a challenge when we were collaborating on the Shutter Sisters book. But when I’m stuck, I usually just ask myself “what’s the most honest way to say this.”

What do you recommend women do who are just getting started in the industry?
Whenever I get these emails, (and this is going to sound so canned) I honestly refer them the Love Affair Workshop. I’ve always wanted to go, and it looks like one of the best ones out there. Other than that, I just say practice and shoot everything. Bring your camera everywhere and read inspiring blogs. There are SO many resources online now. There’s never been a better time to learn photography.


If you have children, do you homeschool them?  If so, how do you fit that into your already very busy schedule?

I have three children. I don’t homeschool them. But sometimes I wish I could find a way to make that happen. It seems to me like the moms I know who homeschool have a lot more freedom in their schedules. 

How do you keep so many things organized?

I have a full time nanny who helps with my kids. She also keeps the house in order, cooks dinners... it’s possible that she might have saved my life. I also have fantastic people helping me with Epiphanie. And my husband is very supportive. There’s no way I could do all of this by myself.

What do you do for fun...that has nothing to do with photography?

Hang out with friends, read, go to movies, watch trash television. I feel like there’s so much I want to do, I’m never bored.

What are you most proud of as a business woman?

I’m proud (and feel blessed and lucky) that I created a job that doesn’t feel like work. 

What do you do to keep your marriage fun? 

We laugh together. It sounds cheesy, but we both have the same absurd sense of humor. And even after sixteen years, there’s usually at least one moment during the day that he’ll make me gut laugh about something. That makes it fun, since we’re pretty bad at planning date nights.

 

What are the top three things you did when you were first getting started in business to bring in clients?

1. I made sure every client I had was as happy as I could make them. 2. blogged a lot 3. Made friends with other businesses and teamed up with them for different promos.

 

I love the name of your blog.  How did that name come about?

 I was reading a magazine about a lady who owned a boutique in Florida named “Relish”, and loved it.

How do you keep your marriage safe from the stresses of your business?

 We’re pretty honest with each other. If something’s not working, we usually talk about it, and work it out.

What is the best thing you've done to make your business successful?

Blog. By far, BLOG.

You are a mom, how old are your children?  What do you do to help them feel part of your business life?

My children are 10, 7 and 5. My business has been such an integral part of my life, I’m not sure they could feel like they weren’t a part of it. Every time my poor husband would be laying down another laminate floor for yet another (“I-have-to-have-it”) studio, there my kids would be curled around the laptop watching cartoons. Hammers, nails, sawdust flying around. It’s an “adventure”. Right? I hope.  :)

What do you do to keep your family strong?

We hang out a lot on the weekends, and try not to overstimulate the kids with too many activities. I think that can run a family ragged. We also try to make traditions by turning mundane things into fun events. Like every week we all sit down to watch Cake Boss. It’s simple, but by dragging the couch up to the TV and cuddling under blankets together, it makes it feel like a little ritual to look forward to.

You are one of the contributors to the Shutter Sisters blog.  How did that opportunity come about?

A few years ago, I stumbled on a blog called Picture This. Tracey (the now founder of Shutter Sisters) was the writer, and we got to know each other online. One day she asked me if I’d like to be a contributor for her her new collaborative blog. I was thrilled.

What is your favorite thing about being part of Shutter Sisters?

I love watching how much it continues to grow, as well as being a part of such a wonderful community. It’s not easy to create such a fantastic sense of inclusiveness. Tracey, and the other sisters have done a great job with it.

You travel quite a bit.  How do you make this easier on your children?  How do they feel about how often you travel?

The amount of traveling I’ve been doing lately isn’t normal for me. Things just aligned to make it a really hectic summer. I’m lucky because Jason is a really hands-on dad, so they’re mostly concerned with what toy I’m going to bring back to them. Still, after the last trip which is scheduled next month, I will enjoy staying home for the rest of the year. It’s always about balance, isn’t it?

What three products or things help you stay organized?

Things, my iPhone, My Epiphanie Bag (of course :))

What is something that you think women in the industry should not do?

Compare.

What is something that you think women in the industry should do?

Be authentic.

You switched to mac a little while ago and were hating it.  Have you and your mac hugged and made up or are you still wanting to wring it's neck...if it had one?  (I switched last year and felt the same way....)

OMG. The first day after purchasing it, I spent a half an hour googling “how to cut and paste on a mac”. I had no idea how much of a learning curve it would be. But we’re on speaking terms now (sort of). Not about to rush into a long term relationship just yet.

What five suggestions do you have for women who are trying to have a more whole, content, and blissful life?
Learn to say no. If you say yes to everything, you will never have time for what means most to you.
Be yourself. Otherwise the people you attract will exhaust the hell out of you. 
Let go of having to do it perfectly.
Don’t be afraid to ask questions.
Live life the way you picture it. (life list inspired by Maggie)


To see more of Maile's work:

website

blog

epiphanie

shutter sisters

shutter sisters book

**All images in this post are copyright Maile Wilson.***

the sweet moments.

I adore the first few days of having a baby at home.  We're all safe in our cocoon of warmth, safety, and newness.  If feels a little off kilter and at the same time there's a serenity and loveliness about the first days of having a newborn.  You've completely stepped out of the world and for now your entire world exists within the confines of the walls of your home.  And in those days it just feels right.

Usually, it's before your brand new little baby realizes that she doesn't have to sleep 22 out of 24 hours.  She sleeps well while she recovers from her birth day...it's peaceful even in its chaos.

I'm so grateful that this beautiful little family welcomed me into the sacred first few days of their blissfull unknown.  After being at the birth and then getting to see them all as a whole family brought back all of those happy feelings of a new baby...their sweetness with each other, big sister testing out the big sister waters, the scent of a newborn, and beauty of family life and the love it holds.

deeper. LOVE.

busy. busy.

Going from one thing to another is what's on the schedule...like a true two year old...

Dumping dump trucks, racing cars, jumping off fridges, sliding on slides, eating raspberries, riding on a bike, pushing a bike, getting a drink of water, running, getting a drink of water, jumping some more, eyeing airplanes...

and more.

It was so fun to be get to see this couple become parents...and they are really fantastic, caring, wonderful parents.  I love that.

full. LIFE.

energy and more.

Spending an evening (and morning...we got rained only 20 minutes into our session...and I mean flash flood kind of rained out...it was incredible) with Josh was so much fun.

Josh has so many expressions, energy, and excitement I knew we were going to get some fantastic images.  We went from one location to the next and stayed with in about 100 yards of his house because there was so much that we was willing to put in front of the camera.

We photographed his wonderful 80s record collection, belted a bit of Broadway, sang a Requiem, and had a little Bible study.

great. LIFE.

a lot of reading.

I cannot believe how much this little missie has grown since I last saw her.  She is so independent and loves to run around naked.  She couldn't get enough of showing me all of the big girl things she could do. We read stories, played in her tent, road her rocking horse, ran around outside, played at the park, raced up hills, and did ring around the rosy...she likes to stay busy.  No sitting on the sidelines of life...

Her parents are so loving and attentive and genuinely wonderful.  They read some fantastic books that I'm going to have to find so I can read them to my kids.  Spending time with this gracious family was a gift.  I'm so blessed to know them.  

sweet. LIFE.